Asking a girl out on a date isn’t as hard as it seems. Make sure you are confident in yourself, and be ready to accept rejection with ease. Even the way you react to a ‘no’ can make her interested when she wasn’t interested in the first place.
Tips for Asking a Girl Out
When asking a girl out, it’s important to remember a few things. Be confident in yourself and like who you are, because if you don’t, she’ll pick up on it. When you’re talking to her, maintain eye contact, the more you look around at other things, the more nervous you’ll seem, even if you don’t mean to. Give her a compliment, like about her eyes that you’ve noticed while maintaining good eye contact. Don’t go overboard though, keep it simple and honest. Showing a sense of humor is a great way to get a girl’s attention, not to mention making things more relaxed. Just don’t make her the subject of the joke.
Remember, the girl is probably going to be just as nervous as you are, but take a deep breath and just ask her. When you ask her out, trying going out for coffee or lunch first, to make it low stress and less “date like”. After you get that first date, be sure to ask her for another date before leaving, while you still have momentum. Pay attention to her interests while getting to know her and use those to suggest ideas for future dates.
Don’t be intimidated by a girl you think is out of your league, or a girl that’s “one of the guys.” Both are probably just waiting for a nice guy like you to ask her out. Many times they are both overlooked and can lead to a great relationship down the road.