He Might Be Into You If…
People always say that women are confusing, but men can be just as hard to figure out! How are you supposed to know if he’s really into you, or if he’s just being a nice guy?
Well, aside from the obvious tipoffs, like an up-front confession or an, ahem, more physical display of interest, the clues can be tough to spot.
Usually when you’re around members of the male sex, all you hear about is football, boobs, and beer. But when you’re around him, he:
- Asks you questions
- Actively listens to what you say
- Remembers even the most obscure pieces of information from your chat
- Talks about things that he knows interest you
If that’s the case, you’ve got one on the line. Time to reel him in!
On the other hand, if he never wants to know anything about you and constantly talks about himself, that’s your sign that he’s not really feelin’ it.
If the object of your affection calls you at random times for no apparent reason, he’s probably got a little crush.
Some phone calls to look out for:
- “Hi. I just wanted to see what you’re up to!”
- “How was your day?”
- “I was thinking about you.”
- “I saw something today that reminded me of you!”
If he sounds anything like that, he’s got it pretty bad.
Unless you’re dealing with the most socially awkward man in existence, nervousness is a sign of much more than shyness. Instead, it’s a sign that he wants to impress you and is worried that he’ll somehow slip up.
Here are some clues that you make him nervous, in that oh-so-great way:
- Blushing when you make eye contact
- Tugging at his clothing
- Touching his face and hair
- Nervous laughter
Those aren’t all the hints, though. Just think about how you act when you’re nervous. If he exhibits those same signs, chances are he’s into you!
If a guy is really into you, he won’t just goof off for the sake of goofing off. If he cracks a joke and then looks to you for approval, he’s trying to impress you.
This is especially true if the jokes are terrible. Remember that nervousness I mentioned earlier? Well, those nerves tend to bring out the most unfunny, nonsensical jokes a man can muster.
He’s getting flustered, and he’s trying his best to make you laugh – because he likes you. So do both of you a favor and laugh!
Do you ever catch him looking at you from across the room? Do you feel like you couldn’t escape his gaze if you tried? Does he try to hide the fact that he’s checking you out by glancing away when you look in his direction?
That’s a surefire sign of interest. Go get ’em.
If a dude is really, super into you, he won’t want to hide you away from the world. Quite the opposite, in fact! He’ll take the first chance to introduce you to his friends, or to take you out in public. He wants everyone to know that he met a beautiful, amazing woman!
It’s also a huge, flashing neon sign that he’s romantically interested if his friends know everything about you. That means he’s been filling them in on all of your best traits when they hang out. He’s talking about you instead of sports or the latest Will Ferrell movie! Get the hint?
A huge clue that he’s interested in you is how much time he spends in your company. Do you hang out almost every day, or does he go weeks without asking to see you? If he takes a lot of time out of his busy schedule to spend it on you, that means you’re important to him.
Make sure to reciprocate. Don’t be too busy to spend time with him! Let him know that you feel the same way by giving him your time, too.
Is he the type of guy friend who just wants to hang out at the drop of a hat, or always wants to grab a pizza and watch a movie? Or is he one to plan out an evening in advance?
If he takes the time to plan out your time together and sticks to that plan, you’ve found a keeper.
Finally, here’s a way to find out if he’s really interested in a relationship with you, or if he’s just looking for some quick action:
- Does he ever call you late at night and ask to get together?
- Does he leave quickly in the morning?
- Does he never seem to have time for you during the daylight hours?
If those bullets are true for you, ditch him. He’s not serious about you. If he is willing to hang with you during the day and doesn’t use you as a booty call, he just might be into you!